25 Things to Do For Yourself Post-Breakup: Part 2

25 Things to Do For Yourself Post-Breakup: Part 2

In a relationship you spend a lot of time doing things for your significant other. And that’s fine! But once you’ve gone through a breakup and that person is out of your life then it’s time to stop putting them first. Now it is all about you and to begin practicing that, start by doing something just for yourself after your breakup. I’ve made a list of things you can do after a breakup to help you with this, broken into a series of five parts. Of the series, this is Part 2. If you’re interested in learning about more things you can do for yourself after a breakup, head on back to Part 1. After reading that, you can continue reading here. Some more things you can do for yourself post-breakup are: 6) Go for a walk Get out in the fresh air by taking a walk. Whether the walk is long or short, the act of stretching your legs and moving around will help push all of the doubts and fears and pain of your breakup to the side for a little bit and clear your head. Going for a walk will also be exercise so it will do both you, and your body, some good. 7) Go shopping Another option is to get out your wallet and head for the shops for some retail therapy. Shopping is a great distraction from a breakup and can be a lot of fun. Buy yourself a new dress, a nice necklace, or an interesting book. You don’t want to go crazy and start throwing your money away, but spending...
5 Reasons to Turn Around your Finances After a breakup!

5 Reasons to Turn Around your Finances After a breakup!

I left an 8 year marriage to start from scratch in 2008. I made many financial mistakes getting into and out of that relationship including marrying $60,000 worth of debt and not paying attention to countless red flags. I also learned some incredible lessons from paying that debt off in 2 years to thriving financially after the relationship ended. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. We are only to pay attention. You may be worried or heartbroken or both. You’re possibly kicking yourself either for not noticing the red flags in your relationship sooner or for not behaving differently somehow to save the relationship. Stop that now. Stop blaming yourself for everything. It’s time to treat yourself with kindness, sweetheart! One of the biggest worries for women after a breakup is financial. It is also the #1 reason we stay in toxic relationships much longer than we should. Assuming you are newly or not-so-newly single…where do you go from here? One of the most satisfying things you can do is take care of yourself financially. Nothing gives you inner strength quite like being the Hero of your own life. It’s not as hard as you think. This the best time for reflection and figuring out who you really are and who you want to be. There is nothing quite as sexy as a confident and vibrant woman who takes care of her own business. Use this time as a gift to yourself. Your life is worth this effort. Nurture your financial well-being. Here are the reasons why: 1) Debt-Free and Worry-Free: Getting your financial house...